Traveling is such a unique and in my opinion there is no better way to challenge and grow in your relationship. Whether it is a small weekend getaway or a huge trip to a whole new continent there are experiences that can only be had while traveling as a couple that will teach you so much!
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Experience New Things
So often in a relationship it can be easy to get into a routine and do the same things day after day, week after week. Things can start to feel more like living with a roommate. Travel is the perfect opportunity to get out of your normal routine and mix things up
Make sure that while you are traveling you are open to new things that you can experience together. This can be as simple as trying local foods that you’ve never had before and trying them together. Or it can be bigger like trying rock climbing for the first time. No relationship is out of firsts when you are constantly seeking out new adventures to try together. And traveling as a couple can open those doors for you.
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Get Out of Your Comfort Zone
While you are out adventuring and trying new things make sure you get outside your comfort zone. This may be different for each person and it is important that you both be willing to get outside your comfort zone. Travel offers so many situations that will make you feel uncomfortable because you are surrounded by unknown customs and different social norms. Don’t let that stop you!
I am the cook in the house but when we went to Thailand I wanted to take a cooking class. Robin seemed a little hesitant and probably thought it was a silly idea more suited to older travelers. But he went along with it and we ended up having a blast!! Now whenever we travel to a new country we try to fit in a cooking class. Plus then we come home with new skills that we can use together!
So maybe it’s dancing together to street music or maybe its anything that makes you slightly uncomfortable. Try to let each other fully experience the culture and customs and learn from them. By doing it together and pushing the boundaries it can bring new depth to your relationship and expand your horizons.
Struggle Together while Traveling as a Couple
Traveling as a couple will place plenty of opportunities for you to struggle together in front of you. Nothing, no matter how hard you plan goes perfectly every time. There are going to be hurdles like lost luggage, missed reservations, and getting lost just to name a few.
Through traveling and going through the not so pleasant side of travel I have learned so much about Robin. He handles the difficult times so much better than me lol. He stays calm, he works through them calmly whereas I tend to get worked up. I definitely got myself a winner lol.
No matter how you handle it though the important part is to work through it together. You’ll learn more about each other and learn to lean on each others strengths.
Be Tired and Worn Out Together
Being tired brings out a whole new level of grumpy, at least for me. Learning how to be together and embrace the other person at their worst and help them through it brings you closer. It is also important to learn how to accept help when you’re tired and maybe need a little help is another important lesson to learn.
Sometimes in our day to day lives we become tired but not really worn out. Adventuring all day can bring out a whole new worn out but in the best way. In the that was awesome and wholesome and fulfilling but now I’m so tired and could sleep for days kind of ways. Relaxing after such amazing days and talking about the events of the day is a great way to grow closer.
Gain a Sense of Adventure and Newness
Bring the sense of adventure and newness back to a relationship by traveling! Travel is full of new experiences and will get you out of the routine of normal life. The giddiness that comes with a new relationship is the same way I feel when experiencing a new place that I love, and I enjoy experiencing those feelings all over again with the person that I love the most.
Perfect Destinations for Couple Travel
- Fast Paced, Two Week Italy Itinerary
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- Quick Trip to Copenhagen, Denmark
Strengthen Connection When You Travel as a Couple
When your travel takes you to new places and can often put you in uncomfortable situations. Use those times to strengthen your connection to each other. When neither of you know the language you have to lean on each other to learn how to get around.
The shared memories and the relationship and communication skills you learn while abroad can lead to a stronger, happier connection while at home.
Traveling as a Couple to Grow the Relationship
As you can see, traveling as a couple can really help build a solid foundation for any relationship or strengthen the existing relationship. You can experience a lot of highs and lows in a short amount of time while traveling that teach you how to celebrate together as well as to help each other.
Have you been on a trip with your significant other? Was it helpful in strengthening your relationship?
